Ijjjji method

ijjjji method v1

LOOKS - BODY & HEALTH
Eat natural and varied. 5-6 lesser meals pr day. Some proteins in every
meal/snack. Avoid hunger. Eat fat from meat and nuts. Reduce alcohol and drugs.
Do full body wo's 3 times a week. Lift heavy but watch out for injuries. Do big
exercises that demand balance and coordination.
Avoid stress and get lots of sleep.

LOOKS - STYLE
Always be clean and groomed. Always smell good. Dress in ways that make you
stand out from the crowd. Clothes must be on the edge. Amplify with
accessories. When buying clothes, think about your style - not the current
fashion.

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BUILD CONFIDENCE
Always be pleased with yourself. Let nothing harm your confidence. Remember
successes and forget mistakes after you learned from them.
View improvement as an effect of your persona and as part of a pattern - not as
result of a good day. See failures as temporary effects of a bad day.
Do not over analyze in search for answers to everything. Never think about the
status in your life. Stop thinking that girls are something fundamentally
important. Realize you will be happy no matter what. Stop seeing girls as
potential girl friends. See them as a source of entertainment, fun and
excitement.

BUILD CONFIDENCE - AFFIRMATIONS
Say affirmations with lots of feeling. Say them with confident masculine voice.
Some examples:
"I'm alpha and masculine! I got deep voice and I'm perfect! I'm confident and
positive!"
"Why are all girls crazy about me? Why am I so charismatic, magnetic and
irresistible? Why am I so confident and unstoppable? Why am I a first class
lover?"
"All girls are horny, and I'm what they want and need!"
"God had a boner when he created me! Chairs orgasm when I sit in them! I'm the
most powerful warm wet pussy magnet in the universe!"

POSITIVITY
Create a clear, detailed and vivid mental picture of what you want in life.
Find the feeling that will come when you get there. See the picture and feel
the feeling as often and as intensively as possible.
Eliminate negative thoughts from your system. Eliminate sources of negativity
from your life (news, soaps, negative friends, AFC songs, negative posts etc).
Let the positive thoughts, feelings and mental pictures dominate. Choose to be
happy, confident and positive - no matter what.

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BE THE PRIZE - SUPPLICATION
Don't do things only to make others like you.
Never be nice. Never adjust yourself.
Reward - never give (thing, help/service, attention, time). Never do anything
on the conditions of others - squeeze in your own conditions.
Never try to impress (brag, say intelligent/interesting/cool things, over act,
talk about your friends/exes/things you own etc.)

BE THE PRIZE - NEEDY
Don't show too much interest early on.
Never follow her and never wait for her without good reason. Be ok with her
leaving. Show willingness to leave.
Do not try to analyze her. Stop caring about her interest in you. Accept that
girls are unpredictable. Remain fully calm and confident when girls do bizarre
things to control their feelings.
Always look like you just had great sex - a little tired, hair a little untidy,
disinterested, arrogant, not needy, like you got better things to do.
Do not hide your sexuality in fear of rejection. Act on it when you are horny,
and never let the outcome affect your mood negatively.
Stop caring what people think of you and show it.

BE THE PRIZE - BODY LANGUAGE
Never lean in. Do not turn too much against her early on - show more back than
her. Do not face her all the time and don't give her all your attention.

BE THE PRIZE - ATTITUDE
I'm the prize - no girl are better or more valuable than me!
This is my world - others come into my world - not vice versa.
Girls are crazy after me - I need protection!
I'm a fantastic lover.
I'm 100% pleased with myself.

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BE THE MAN - GENERAL
Be 100% masculine at all times.
Always be dominant and in control. Take charge - be the leader - the boss. Do
everything with authority. Instruct - never ask. Never seek approval.
Show that you got limited respect for her and that you are not subdued by
social norms/rules (scream in her ear, make noise, laugh and sing loudly, pull
her hair, pinch her ass, grab her and bite her neck, shout about farting and
ass fucking, laugh and admit you are a jerk etc)
Never show a soft emotional side. Don't show interest in her thoughts and
emotions.

BE THE MAN - TONALITY
Talk with a dominant tone. Speak slow, deep, rhythmic, clear and relaxed, like
you are not in a hurry and got full control. Copy the way air plane pilots talk
to their passengers. Make breaks that create anticipation before you get to the
point, and breaks where you underline the point with gestures and meaningful
eye contact.

BE THE MAN - BODY LANGUAGE
Spread yourself out and fill as much space as possible, when you stand, sit and
walk.
Move extremely slow and relaxed. Cross rooms like a king headed for his throne.
Every movement including head and eyes shall be slow and dramatic.
Move focus/attention rarely. Ignore everyone and everything that doesn't
deserve the boss' attention.

BE THE MAN - KINO
Touch her confidently - never insecure, careful or testing.
Handle her like a doll - grab her and control her movements. Hold her and lead
her - change directions, speed etc so you manipulate her movement. Tell her how
to do things while you grab her and show her the movements. Lift her up and
spin around when you hug/kiss her. Help her with getting clothes off /on.
Lift/carry her over obstacles.

BE THE MAN - ATTITUDE
I'm the boss and I got full control. I own the guy who owns this place. I'm
Zeus - its my duty as god to fuck the nymphs!

BE THE MAN - 'FICTION HERO'
Male heroes in films and romantic novels share a few traits that many girls
dream of. Be these things:
Impression: Strong, muscular, tough, hard, big hands, powerful, alpha,
dominant, protective, masculine, confident, will power, determination, untamed,
rough edges, moody, dark,dangerous, mystic, raw, rough, devilish, wild.
Personality: integrity, identity, pride, honor, sense of humor, self irony,
charming, charismatic, flirty, passionate, good kisser, rough lover.
Hidden qualities: weaknesses, wounds, faults, openness to learning and growth,
caring, attentive, tender (the clue with these is that he does a everything in
his power to hide them).

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STATE CONTROL - GET INTO FLOW
Be relaxed, laid back, unworried and comfy. Feel safe, secure and confident.
Feel happy and great about yourself. Trust yourself.
Open a few girls quickly (3s rule) before you do anything else.
Avoid being passive. Never stand still and observe.
'Let go' and throw yourself into action. Join in, do something, be part of the
action, dig the music, move/walk around, take the lead, wave and talk to people
etc.

STATE CONTROL - AVOID DEEP THINKING
Focus on your feelings. Let your feelings get carried away by music or
something happening.
Avoid deep thinking - don't analyze - turn off inner dialogue. Forget status,
plans and agenda. Avoid mirrors, clocks and other 'thought triggers'.

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EYE CONTACT
Eye contact must be confident, meaningful and firm - not timid, questioning,
analyzing, shy, short, begging or frustrated.

FACES
Use funny overdramatized facial expressions for underlining and vibing.
Examples: Puppy dog - overly sad face with huge eyes. Dignity - turn head
sideways and stare towards the horizon with low eye lids and straight neck.
(Look out for new ones among your friends and when watching movies and
cartoons)

TALK
Don't talk too much. Don't try too hard to keep conversation alive - don't try
to fill empty pauses. Don't be too enthusiastic and interested in what she
says. Don't remember too much what she has said. Don't answer too quickly.
Don't tell about yourself unless she asks.
Avoid thought stimulating talk like questions, problems, plans, logic,
explaining, analyzing, advice, argumentation/defense, fascinating, interesting,
intelligent, analytical, theoretical, professional.
Always pump positive emotions - never dwell on the negative.
Never talk without subcommunication - subtext/hidden messages, body language,
facial expressions and meaningful eye contact.

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ATTRACTION - GENERAL
Be fit!
Be clean/groomed!
Be the prize!
Be the man!
Be in a strong confident state!
Be sexual!

ATTRACTION - SEXUAL STATE
Be in a sexual state. Show it by doing stuff like: Play with something in your
hands. Straighten hair/clothes. Touch your face, neck and body. Turn more and
more towards her. Move closer. Open relaxed body language. Relaxed smile. Low
relaxed eye lids. Sensual eye contact. Whisper like voice. Lick upper lip. Bite
lower lip. Look down with 'sad' eye brows. Scan her body slowly with eyes.
Stare at lips. Open mouth with long breath. Turn head sideways slightly
backwards to expose carotid artery. Short heavy breathing.

ATTRACTION - OPEN
Attitude and body language must be 100% the man and 100% the prize.
Avoid approaching too directly - talk to her as you pass her or while facing
another direction or while in conversation with others.
NEG her if she doesn't show interest and enthusiasm.

ATTRACTION - FLIRTING
Be cocky!
Tease her about wanting you, that you can't be a couple, that you are not her
type, that she should try to seduce another guy etc.
Bust her playfully on everything she does and says.
Pretend like you are searching for a polite way to leave her.
Tell her she is seducing you and beg her to stop.
Say things with hidden sexual messages (subtext) - use a lot of symbolic words:
wet, moist, stream, pump, warm, open, grow, big, rise, stiff, hard, hidden,
secret, good, from behind, in, deeper, slide, penetrate, ecstasy, bliss, come,
suck, lick, tongue, mouth, adventure, feel, rhythm, wave, fantasy, wild,
untamed, intense.
Look at her like she said something dirty. Paraphrase stuff she says into a
sexual context and tell her she's a naughty girl.

ATTRACTION - INTRIGUE
Be mystical - don't say everything - indicate and say things indirectly. Hint
towards secrets and double meanings with body language, facial expressions and
subtext.
Ask her to guess. Give obvious bull shit answers.
Become distracted or cut yourself off or change subject just before you reach
the point.
Fractionate attention when there's a spike in her interest. Look and talk to
other girls. Turn away from her. Go toilet. Fall into deep thought. Look
around.

ATTRACTION - KINO
Butt bump, spank, tackle, push, spin, tickle/prickle, pinch, pull hair,
wrestle, lift, shake.
Point somewhere and stick a finger in her belly. Pretend to kiss her hand but
kiss our own instead.

ATTRACTION - SHIT TEST
Focus on being the prize and the man if she does things to become the prize or
make you less dominant.
Stuff like demands, commands, complains, manipulation, negativity, logic
questions and threats must be met with attraction (cocky busting/teasing,
spanking, tickling or backturn/freezeout). Never with direct/honest answer,
frustration, neediness or rapport seeking.
If she complains about you, agree and ask if that's why you make her so horny.

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RAPPORT
Never seek rapport. When she seeks rapport, give her a little bit, but never
enough to satisfy her. Then return to attraction.
Do not try to build trust, comfort and feeling of safety. Don't try to be kind
and considerate. Don't try to be her friend.
Avoid rapport that is feminine, friendly, careful, considerate or insecure.

RAPPORT - KINO
Be the man by using an impulsive and confident caveman style.
Rub, don't squeeze or pinch. Use slow deliberate movements.
Touch her close to eregenous zones and pull back.
Touch yourself with her hands.
De-escalate kino after escalation.

RAPPORT - CLOSING
Create an innocent reason why you should go together to her or your place. Then
take charge and make it happen.
If conversation dies, look her in the eyes and say nothing.
Smell her neck slowly from shoulder to hair line. "Mmmmm!" Do it again while
gradually making it more like kissing and biting. Continue up and nibble her
earlobe gently and continue along her chin towards her mouth. Pull back before
you reach her mouth. Then grab her head and kiss her cave man style. Pull back
again etc. Continue taking steps forwards and backwards until she is ready for
sex.
Let your sexual state affect everything you do. Show her you got problems
concentrating. Make it obvious what you think about.
Be the man in bed.

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MATERIAL - ATTRACTION

1 Material suited for opening

1.1 Just say something!

Right now I wanted to talk to you - hi my name is ijjjji!
My evil twin told me to talk to you!
My invisible friend told me to talk to you!
Question - my shirt! I know its nice but I'm worried maybe its too sexy!
Question - you the jealous type? Ok, so if I was your BF, I could still drink
coffee with my ex once a week?

1.2 Compliment/NEG

Aww so nice hair - is it real? (pull hair) But it moved!
Wow.. beautiful eyes.. especially the right one!
Cute teeth - are they real?
Nice nails - are they real?
Wow.. I can see you work out.. now and then..
You're pretty - you could have been a model.. if you were a little taller.. and
a little thinner..
You look sexy from behind!
Nice outfit you're almost wearing!

1.3 Impression /mini cold read

Bad girl!
Naughty girl!
Wow.. party girl!
You are trouble! I shouldn't be talking to you!
There is something mystical about you! You give me a strange feeling..
You look like you are hiding something!
I can't trust you!
Aww you look just like.. a little angel!
Aww you look just like.. a little princess!

1.4 Cocky, disqualify

Wow.. you are almost as sexy as me!
You look happy - did you just fart?
Aww... you are soooo cute! I want to adopt you!
Wow - your eyes are the same color as my porsche!
Sooo... I heard you wanted to fight me! Cool.. then we can have hot make up sex
afterwards!
Awww you are so cute from behind - I had to see the rest! (She asks what you
think) On a scale from 1 to 10.. guess!
I lost my teddy (puppy dog face).. would you sleep with me?

Aww you are soo cute.. but we could never be a couple - we are too much the
same.. we would fight and throw things and have incredible make up sex all over
the place and fight more then sex fight sex fight.. too much drama and intense
feelings!
Aww you are soo cute.. I almost forget I'm not looking for a relationship right
now!
Wow.. I could marry a girl like you.. but I'd divorce you a week later and take
all the money and let you keep the dog.
Are you rich? Aww I need a rich GF who can support me while I start a boy band
- The Whatever Boys! But hey - I need groupies too! But you don't look like
groupie material - she can be my groupie and you can be my manager! Yeah!

2 Other attraction material

2.1 Cocky, disqualify, frame stealing

Aww I love you.. like a sister!
You want to kiss and hug me but I wont let you.
You want me so much but we can't risk losing this wonderful friendship!
I'm no good for you - he is cute - he suits you - you look cute together!
Let me see (grab hand) see, your good girl line is very long.. and look at this
long bad boy line - we could never be a couple!

Shit! A poisonous snake bit me in the testicles - you got to help me suck out
the poison - now!
Can I kiss your belly button from the inside?
Look! (Point and stick a finger in her belly)
(Bump her) OMG you're so drunk you can't walk!
You are trying to resist me but forget it - I'm irresistible!
Girls wait in line to be with me!
Why do you think I'm so sexy? But you look at me like a priest looking at an
alter boy!
Its hard to be a sex symbol!
Won't you get too aroused if I sit this close?
My friends are jealous because mine is bigger!
OMG I think I love me!
I'm hard - are you wet?
My bedroom has a very interesting ceiling!
You could be the president.. of my fan club!
OMG you are so nice! Wait - there is a stain on your halo (pretend to rub her
halo).. there - now you are a perfect little halo girl!

Hey - no matter how drunk you get me, you can't have my body tonight! I'm not
that cheap!
Hey - stop looking at me like a piece of meat - I'm a human being.. I have
feelings!
You can come but no sex! I'm tired of being treated like a piece of meat - I'm
a human being.. I have feelings!
Stop looking at me like a fat kid looking at a cheese burger!
You can have my number, but that doesn't automatically mean I'll sleep with
you!

2.2 DLV

I'm shy.
I'm a virgin.
My dick is extremely small!
I'm an unemployed loser - I live with my mom.
I'm so lonely - no friends - tonight I'll cry myself to sleep.
I'm an anal sex addict.
I'm no good! I cheat, lie and dump girls on valentine's day.
(Phone rings) What? I don't have friends! Ah its mom!
(During #close) I got phone phobia - is it ok if I make my mom call you?

2.3 Guessing

Guess!
I'm an angel - one more good deed and I'll get my wings!
I'm a traveling underwear inspector!
I'm a freelance gynecologist - how long is it since your last check?
I'm a gigolo.. but relax - friendship is free!
I'm an orgasmologist!
I'm 16 - 16 and unkissed!
You are.. 60! Hehe just kidding! Hey I was only kidding! You are.. 16 - sweet
16! 17 18 19! I refuse to believe you are older than 19!
Aww I cant bee with X year olds.. only X-1 and X+1 year olds!
Can't tell you all my secrets yet - I just met you!
Its a secret! I don't know you well enough yet!
Blabla.. OMG I said too much!

2.4 Breaks

Aaawww.. you got an X.. no - don't show me that!
Mmmm you got so cute eyes.. no.. don't look at me! Its a bad idea! Stop giving
me these feelings!
Mmmm it feels so good.. I'm so relaxed.. No! We got to stop! This is a bad idea
- we can't have these feelings!
Stop tempting me to kiss you!
Aww that smell is so good! No! Don't let me smell that! We can't do this!
It can never work between us.. shit your skin is so soft!
Wow.. wait.. what are you doing to me!?
OMG I'm so attracted to you.. but I'm scared and shy.. I got to go now!

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Seducing girls - a complete guide

Improve appearance on day to day basis. Get organized - written goals/plans. Focus on these 3 areas:
-Gym & nutrition. Girls seem to value strong/raw physique much more than genetic good looks. This alone will transform seduction from a difficult mountain climb to a walk in the park. Girls will be much more cooperative early on. It is an absolute must.
-Dress with distinct style. Take it to the extreme in clubs/disco. Groom adequately. If odor/rash problem, try 5%vinegar instead of soap.
-Improve vibe/body language habits (see app. A)

Go to coffee shop/mall/pub/bar/club at least twice a week. On your way there, first focus on total relaxing - shut down all other thoughts (especially thoughts about girls). Then consider the incredible coincidence that put you into existence. Think about how lucky you are and how great life is compared to not existing. Really feel the gratitude for being alive, and put a big smile on your face. Continue focusing on this and other things you appreciate (see app. B).

When you arrive, all happy and relaxed, your first mission is to find something inside this environment that you appreciate. Then, turn immediately to the nearest girl and tell her. Say something like "I love this song!" or "Wow.. this couch is so soft.. and I love this texture!" (rub the material slowly). If you see a nice girl, tell her immediately (no delay) . Say something like "You look happy!" or "Aww.. you are so cute!" or "Nice hair! Is it real?" or "That shirt looks good on you!"...

Do not try to observe her reaction. Just continue smiling and commenting on things. Sit/stand with your side towards her. Keep everything light and relaxed. No need to talk non stop. Mix in some teasing and humor (see app. C for inspiration).

When she starts asking about you, say "Guess". Then dodge with joke answers (see list). Then break yourself off in middle of telling. Then try obviouslyto change the subject. Girls find this little game of secrecy very exciting.

When she starts smiling a lot, tell her she smells good. Stroke her lightly. Talk less. Sit closer.

The end.

Appendix A - Vibe/BL

Attractive body language (BL) habits:
-Posture (straight as if pulled up by the back of head)
-Relaxed (eye lids, face, neck&shoulders, breathing etc)
-Spread out (occupying much space)
-Grace (move deliberately and slightly slowed - a bit like tai chi)
-Distant (as if surroundings are not very important - see BL note in app. B)

The 3 main seductive vibes:

Alpha Male - extra slow, arching neck, extra spread out, expand torso as if air balloon inside being filled. Effective for making girls notice you.

Exercise for learning alpha BL: Close your eyes and conjure mental picture of you being leader and protector of your tribe. Notice the BL details and how powerful and dominant you look. In your mind, climb into the picture and walk over to the alpha you. Step inside and become the alpha you with your BL. Notice how it feels. Find out what color do you associate with this feeling, and where in your body this feeling comes from. See how the feeling/color flows out from this place and fill every part of your body from the top of your head to the tip of your toes. Make the feeling intense and the color bright all over your body. Imagine a volume button in the spot where the feeling comes from. Paint it in the same color and notice what it looks like. Imagine it slowly turning the feeling up to double intensity. Then gradually all the way up to 10 times as intense. From now on, turning this dial will boost your alpha vibe no matter what, so no need to think about the details.

Post Coital - extra emphasis on being relaxed and comfy. Extremely laid back and 'chill'. Slightly narrow eyes and some sleepy stretching. Totally unworried and distant, not caring about surroundings. Effective for making girls curious about you. Practice: Imagine having had crazy sex all night and now totally exhausted. Step into this image like described above.

Horny - unlike other two, strongly aware of girl (facing and looking at her). Very relaxed face with low eye lids and open mouth. Heavy breathing, lick/bite lips, let eyes wander down to girl's body. Effective for turning girls on. Practice: think of something that makes you horny and notice how it affects your BL. Intensify feeling. Intensify BL. (credit GunWitch»)

Note on learning all this:
Only way to improve BL-habit is daily practice. Create a daily ritual where you first practice BL and then go into each of the 3 seductive attitudes. Do it together with something you already do every day (brushing teeth, walking to office etc..), so you never forget to practice. Make a small list of the things you want to practice, and keep it in bathroom. Also, whenever you catch yourself having bad BL (hunched, tense, hurried etc..), correct it at once.

Appendix B - Appreciate

Appreciation is to hold something in your mind with gratitude. When doing this, bad feelings are shut down and good feelings are strengthened. When a person is in this mental mode, its easy for others to see - its as if the bliss/happiness is bleeding out from every pore. Those feelings are contagious, so others will start to feel good too, even if they don't know why the person is happy. This creates a feeling of friendship and GOOD INTENTIONS. This is why appreciation is the ideal mental frame to be in when meeting new people (and socializing in general).

When focusing on things you dont have, you open your mind to the feeling of need (wanting something). This is the opposite of appreciation and leads to feelings like frustration, insecurity, sadness, discontent and so on. This is also easy for others to see, and it makes others insecure and uneasy about you. They can see you want something. They DOUBT your good intentions. This is why need is the WORST POSSIBLE frame for meeting people.

Needy people suffer from habits of seeking validation from others. Two things must be done to end this habit. The first is to focus your mind on appreciation - stop dwelling on all the stuff you want, and learn to appreciate areas that already satisfy you. Practice this every day. I recommend you do this during a daily routine like teeth brushing. Go through all the things that are going well and take moments to really feel the gratitude for each one.

Secondly, focus on appreciation when you socialize. Look actively for positive qualities in others, and let them know you noticed. Also look for positive things about surroundings or situation and talk warmly about them. Also talk about good experiences you have had lately, emphasizing how good it made you feel. Discipline yourself to steer all conversations down this path. In no time, this will transform you from a needy guy, to the type of guy everyone love to hang with.

A note on BL: Neediness (validation seeking) materializes itself as a large 'awareness radius' (how far away from yourself, you are aware of whats going on). To avoid sending out this bad vibe, try this little mind trick: Imagine a sphere around you. Everything outside the sphere doesn't exist. Then make the sphere as small as possible.

Appendix C - lines you can use or draw inspiration from

Openers:
"Wow you look happy!" (credit Rageking)
"Aww so nice hair - is it real?" (pull hair) "HEY.. it moved!" (credit Style & Mystery)
"Aww what a nice fabric/material!" (grab/touch ha piece of her clothes – credit brooklyn)
"Wow.. I can see you work out.. now and then.."
"Wow, you look incredible today - did you take a shower?" (credit Viberateher)
Bump her so almost falls, then "Are you drunk?" (credit dahunter)
"My invisible friend just told me to talk to you!"
"Aww... you are soooo cute! I want to adopt you!" (credit Papa)
"Aww you are soo cute.. but we could never be a couple - we are too much the same.. we would fight and throw things and have incredible make up sex all over the place and fight more then sex fight sex fight.. too much drama and intense feelings!" (credit TylerDurden)
"Shit! A poisonous snake bit me in the testicles - you got to help me suck out the poison - now!"

Comments:
"Bad girl!"
"Naughty girl!"
"You are trouble! I shouldn't be talking to you!"
"There is something mystical about you!"
"You look like you are hiding something!"
"I can't trust you!"
"Aww you look just like.. a little angel/princess!"

Dodge questions:
"Guess!" (credit TylerDurden)
"I'm an unemployed loser - I live with my mom."
"I'm an angel - one more good deed and I'll get my wings!" (credit TylerDurden)
"I'm a traveling underwear inspector!" (credit TylerDurden)
"I'm a freelance gynecologist - how long is it since your last check?" (credit TylerDurden)
"I'm an orgasmologist!" (credit TylerDurden)
"I'm 16 - 16 and unkissed!"
"You are.. 60! Hehe just kidding! Hey I was only kidding! You are.. 16 - sweet 16! 17 18 19! I refuse to believe you are older than 19!"

Misc:
"I lost my teddy (puppy dog face).. would you sleep with me?"
"Aww I love you.. like a sister!"
"Won't you get too aroused if I sit this close?" (credit Nathan Szilard)
"I'm hard - are you wet?"
"My bedroom has a very interesting ceiling!"
"Aww.. you are so cute.. but we could never be a couple.. my mom would never approve!"
"My mom told me to stay away from bad girls!"
"I should have listened to my mom!" (Later in sarge)
"WTF!? I got no friends! Aha.. it must be my mom!" (Cell phone rings)
"I got phone phobia - is it ok if I make my mom call you?" (During #close)
"I dont know need to ask my mom." (credit Nightblue)
"My mom told me to be home before ten." (credit Nightblue)
"I can't help it. My mother raised me too well." (if she says you are too nice) (credit Style)
"I'm soooo lonely (puppy) I got no friends and nobody wants me! Tonight I'll go to bed all alone and cry silently until I fall asleep."
"I'm no good! I cheat, lie and dump girls on valentine's day."
"I'm no good for you - he is cute - he suits you - you look cute together!"
"Yeah I'm such a looser - you should get with this guy - look how cute he is, and he really likes you!"
"My penis is extremely small!"
"I'm a virgin!"
"Girls are so scary!"
"Im shy."
"This is why nobody wants me.. big tummy" (putting belly out and tapping it) "and tiny dick" (indicate 1 inch w/fingers + sad puppy face)
"I collect trash - I'm a trash man! Trash is MY LIFE! I plan a big career in trash!"
"As always, I'm out looking for my future wife. I have NO IDEA why its so hard to find her - I only have 2 tiny requirements! I'm a modest man - I don't ask for much! A perfect body.. and she must be VIRGIN. My dick is so small! I don't want her to have anything to compare me with. It would make me so insecure! I want to be her first and only lover! She must not have a dildo either. I'm afraid the dildo would come between us!"
Get up, stretch, look around and say "I got to go" … "to the toilet" with a wicked grin.
"Are you rich? Aww I need a rich GF who can support me while I start a boy band - The Whatever Boys! But hey - I need groupies too! But you don't look like groupie material - she can be my groupie and you can be my manager! Yeah!" (credit TylerDurden)

Edit:
"I have to tell you this.. No.. I cant.." and move on.
"Wow - you remind me of the girl in that TV-show.. what was it called again.."
"You make me shiver deep inside.. but I guess it wasnt meant to be!" Look deeply into her eyes
"I put my heart in your hand and you crush it like that!?" Backturn

Appendix D - Some sex advice
-Don't undress girls. Start sexing instead (rubbing and dry-humping).
-Rub slowly towards pussy but make a turn so you barely miss it.
-When rubbing pussy, just graze it.
-When licking pussy, don't dive in. Home in slowly. Lick inner thighs a lot, barely touching pussy when you change side. Take time licking areas close to the pussy before licking IT.
-When time to put it in, don't! Rub clit with head of cock and put only head inside. Go back and forth between rubbing and putting only head inside.
-When fucking, start very slow and focus on getting maximum range of motion with every thrust. Accelerate much slower than she wants to.

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/fs?action=9&read=58623&fid=23&BoardID=2#360031

Subject: My game in 12 words

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Appreciate
Expect
Assume
Smile

Meals
Iron
Groom
Style

Sumo
CuteGuy
X-eyed
SexState

Wow/Aww..
90 Degrees
Intrigue
Oohh..

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Quiz: My game is easily summed up in 12 words. Check out how many of these you are clued in on. I doubt anyone will get a perfect 12/12..

The sum of the above is of course ULTIMATE GAME Which in itself can be a problem at times..

Im sure others suffer from this too.. when you get so used to the whole gaming that you just cant turn it off. In fact, when I'm around girls I'm not SUPPOSED TO game, the attraction just ERRUPTS.. when I'm like trying to RESTRAIN myself from gaming, but at the same time my game kinda BLEEDS out between the lines and in subtle body language...

(Lol - I met the family of a GF last weekend and her mum and kid sister were constantly flirting or sitting on me or touching me. Same type of stuff has happened with female colleagues, daughters of colleagues, female customer reps etc.. Strange how these girls will disregard if the situation is inappropriate. I tend to blush if I feel situation is inappropriate and then girls tend to go even more crazy.)

Feel free to share your experiences on this and at the same time your score in quiz above
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Subject: 4 Great Modes

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Annoyingly easy to get distracted away from doing the most effective things, when in field. For 2 weeks I've tested this 4 mode cycle to constantly push myself to do those things. After a few minutes or when I feel I'm stalling, I switch to the next mode. Big fun so far! No stalling out! No getting bored! A bit robotish like controlled by computer program.. strange but funny feeling!

Figure http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/5329/2197/1600/flow4.jpg

Mode descriptions:

._.-=-. Cute Guy .-=-._.

This is a bit hard to explain but easy to do. Act AS IF you are a guy with celeb-like popularity. Think "I'm glad all you fine women find me irresistible.. but pleeeease restrain yourself.. I cannot handle this much attention at once."

Convey a mix of
-happiness since women want you
-shyness because its too much attention

Smile with 'sad' eye brows while tilting head slightly forward and turning 90+ degrees away from the girls you smile to.

"I guess I'd have to say the number one thing all alpha males have and they have it in spades, is that they look like they're getting it."
-Halley Suit

._.-=-. Sumo .-=-._.

This is easy to explain and do.
-Arch neck backwards.
-Spread out.
-Breathe slower and deeper.
-Relax and slow down all movement.
(Move a bit like thai chi. This will create an effect similar to slow motion sequences in action movies.)

Sumo memory help:

S - Notice how the letter S arches its neck..
U - the middle letter in oUt, as in spread out..
M - Mmmmmhhhh.. (long slow breath)
O - slOoooow and relaxed moves

._.-=-. Crosseyed Approacher .-=-._.

This is easy to explain and do. Walk around as if a little stone and drunk and unaware of things around you. Say things to girls when you walk near them. No intellectual stuff. More like "This song is so nice! I really like this song!" or "Wow I like your hair. It looks so soft!" Check out how Rocky talks to people in the first Rocky movie! Check out Elvis documentaries and how he acted in groups of people!

._.-=-. S S -- .-=-._.

S S = sexual state. (-- refers to low eye lids / 'bedroom eyes')

This is dead easy! Just be horny and show it by lowering eye lids, open mouth, lick/bite lips, touching yourself, staring at ass/tits/lips.. make it obvious!

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/fs?action=9&read=51910&fid=23&BoardID=2#322750

Subject: 4 intense thoughts

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"Iiiiiiiiihh-aaaaahm-sssshhhooooooooo-hhhuuuuuuuuge"

"Crosseyed"

"Hhhooorrnyyy-drooool"

"Shy-sad-smile"

Wow.. was really ON last night! Girls crowding up to talk to me as if I was some sort of celeb.. Funny thing was I only had 4 intense thoughts (above), sequencing in my head the whole night. Since FOREVER, I've tried to make my method this short/simple! SWEET SUCCESS! Cant wait to get out again tonight.

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There is more to this than meets the eye though:
-The first thought forces me to have all the alpha BL I posted about 5000 times before.
-The second thought reminds me to have virtually ZERO awareness radius + overly relaxed and low eye lids.
-The third instantly puts me in sexual state and makes me home in on some girls tits and ass.
-The fourth makes me do the whole Cute Guy Emulation thing from early in my archive, PLUS the whole 90deg thing (or AR fucking, or backturn/sideturen or whatever you want to call it).

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/fs?action=9&read=49649&fid=23&BoardID=2#308122

Subject: My method

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I love the 'my method' type posts seen here lately! I would love it if more guys who get laid would share their 'setup'! This is mine:

-With EXTREMELY(*) good looking girls I've found that "Interesting X - it looks good on you" about something she is wearing is golden ... Looking for interesting clothes on girls is also a nice way to keep busy. (momentum - avoid thinking too much etc)

-I really like the "Wow - you look happy/relaxed/curious/.." type opener. Many reasons. Its totally great! Sometimes I just say "wow" to a girl without knowing what I will say next.. after the 2 sek verbal break I always come up with something, and I even got the "you look.. no I can't tell you that!" intrigue loop as backup. Not to mention all the great negs like Nice_hair, Nice_nails, Nice_teeth, eh.. Cute_ears etc etc..

-If a girl moves too fast for talk, I grab a piece of her clothing and go "What I nice fabric!" (got this from a post here)

After opener: intrigue loops, sexual EC, sexual kino (all done in 2-10 min)

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Is it this setup that gets me laid??? or is it because:
-I'm used to having fast success with this setup.
-my facial 'looks' has gone from 4 to 8 from working out since I found mASF.
-my body is getting so muscular that random girls compliment it whenever I wear slim fit stuff.
-I have this amazing smile that communicates "You are soooo cute!" and "I got to get away from you NOW!" at the same time.
-I've developed a cocky humour that makes girls and guys roll on the floor laughing at times.
-I walk like I'm THE KING. Hmm.. this too make people laugh at times
-I'm never needy, and allshittests make me laugh.

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(*): Sidenote on EXTREMELY good looking girls: They are only difficult to open if they are busy or bored. If relaxed, they can be opened exactly like any other girl! But if working in a busy bar or dancing with friends or talking to a bunch of people or just standing still with serious face, "Interesting X - it looks good on you" works a lot better than anything else I've tried. Not sure why.
http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/fs?action=9&read=45121&fid=23&BoardID=2#281571

-I don't try to get/arrange meets with girls.
-I won't take 3 busses to meet any chick, even if I'm banging her and shes good.
-I do stuff like vacuuming and dishes when girls visit (so I don't waste any time that could be spent on my hobbies)
-I ass fuck girls the first or second time.
-Girls do their hair the way I like it.
-We listen to my music.
-We watch movies I want to watch.
-We eat the food that I want.
-We go to bed when I'm tired.
-We dont talk about 'us'.
etc etc..

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/fs?action=9&read=45023&fid=23&BoardID=2#281554

Subject: Finding the good PU habits

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Expect......Hope
Relaxed....Nervous
Assume....Analyze
Moment....Outcome
Active.......Passive
Do.............Think
Take..........Want
Escalate.....Wait
Dominant..Submissive

(Lol - Tried to make two columns but not so easy..)

(Sidenote: Follow each column above, and you got the basic step by step recipe for getting laid, and for not getting laid.)

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/fs?action=9&read=44420&fid=23&BoardID=2#278976

YES!!

Girls don't judge. They look for the judgement of others and follow that judgement. Hence the power of social proof.

If you judge yourself as great, she will follow this judgement. If you judge yourself as 'off' or nervous etc she will follow this judgement and try to get away from you.

This is why you must always ASSUME and never analyze (look to her for judgement).

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Subject: ijjjji sms and meetup method

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This method that never fails!

._.-=-. 1 .-=-._.

Send the following sms less than 1 min after we split up. This is the famous '100% reply hugging bears'.. its so good I should charge 1000 $ but instead I give you free.. me so stupid:

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()* )""'()
( ö ) 'o')
(,("(")')")

()* )"" ()
( 'o')' )
(,("(")')")

Aww.. you are so
cute! I love
you.. you are my
new best friend!
Big hug! ijjjji
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._.-=-. 2 .-=-._.

When they reply with enthusiasm, *don't* reply back no matter what. Get sleep instead!

._.-=-. 3 .-=-._.

Reply next evening similar style to

"Hey lil princess Yeah it was fun last night.. you so cute and funny! Been so sleepy all day.. gonna chill and play some playstation and early to bed. Sleeping is my favorite hobby *long warm hugs*"

NB: No questions! No "we should meet some time.." No meet up hinting like "I'm gonna see a great movie tonight!"

._.-=-. 4 .-=-._.

Continue with this style until she hints/asks for meet. Then

"I sms you tomorrow when I know what time I finish work/school and meet you downtown on way home."

NB: Keep planning/details at a minimum.

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Subject: Confidence is bullshit

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99.9% of the stuff you do in a day, you do without thinking. Like tying your shoe lace.

But on rare occasion you sense danger and approach carefully: Analyze -> Determine expected outcome -> Act accordingly.

Often the situation is not dangerous, but maybe you don't know this because its a new situation to you. But you soon realize its safe and start doing it without thinking.

But sometimes we use the careful approach a bit too long, so it turns into a habit with that specific type of situation.

'Confidence' is a word we use when we try to describe this situation. We often say we 'lack confidence' or that we 'lost our confidence' or that we need to 'build some confidence'. As you now can see, THIS 'CONFIDENCE' IS PURE AND UTTER BULLSHIT, its not a thing, its not something we lost or need to build, it does not exist and it has nothing to do with reality.

IN REALITY, its just a BAD HABIT. A habit of acting too carefully in a certain type of situation.

And habits are only changed by ACTING in a new way, repeatedly over time. This creates a new pattern that replaces the old one. It can be hard at first but always much easier soon after.

LETS GET PRACTICAL:

I'm sure you know approximately where you should start! This is just some tips you can try for fun if you want to:
-Replace needy goals like "get laid" and "get 3 #s a night" with this: NO MORE MR. CAREFUL!
-Develop some extreme macho body language habits (borderline cartoon-like) and have a humorous/non serious attitude about it. Do it for fun!
-Stop agreeing with MR.CAREFUL type guys on mASF. Laugh at them and stay in your new frame!
-Create a mental picture that illustrates how ridiculous it is to be carful around girls - be creative! Recall this picture when you start thinking around girls, to kick you out of that old habit!
-Change 3 seconds rule into 0 seconds rule.
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-(Fill in with your own ideas. Then take some action.)

(Sidenote: 'Skill', 'understanding' and 'experience' are other words we use in a similar way, as an excuse for why we cant or shouldnt act right now. Stuff like PU and public speaking does not require any of these. Al they require is adopting a 'shoe lace'-approach.)

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/fs?action=9&read=43733&fid=23&BoardID=2#273488

Subject: From early attraction to sex - the big secret

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Talk, is a NUCLEAR POWER TOOL during the first few minutes of a PU. You can crack her shield and pump her state all over the place, with words alone! After 3 min of this, the girl will start looking at you like a fat kid looking at cupcake.

After this point, talk become something TOTALLY DIFFERENT.

Girl is EMOTIONAL now. And the entire rest of the 'road' to the state where she is ready to have sex, goes through the Land of Emotions. As SHE walks this road, she will say some very strange things to/about you. "You are so cute!" "I bet you get lots of girls!" "Please dont leave me!".. she says these things, most of all to create a picture of you that will prevent her intelligent brain from saying "STOP - you cant fuck this guy! He is not good enough!" All attracted girls do this 'perfect guy projecting' verbally or in their thoughts. Its a key part of the arousal process.

When YOU talk, its different. Firstly, her intelligent brain is activated (momentarily ripping her out of Land of Emotion - putting arousal on HOLD). Her logic brain has only one question at this point, and its written in HUGE RED LETTERS.. "DOES HE QUALIFY FOR SEX?".. Anything you say will be interpreted against this qestion alone.. (Sidenote: To reproduce once, a girl must give away 9 months, eat like a brontosaurus, go through INHUMANE pain and POSSIBLY DIE during birth.. all to give birth to one man's child... cant blame her logic brain for trying to make sure she finds the best male possible )

So, instead of looking actively for arousal and reasons to fuck you, she is now looking actively for stuff that disqualifies you. OUCH!!

Another important part of her arousal process is HER PUTTING IN WORK to get you. As she convinces herself that you are great, she has to put in some effort, for the picture to become congruent. A great guy could never be won over with ZERO EFFORT. She will try to be nice, say nice things, touch you, smile alot etc etc.. - this is also SHUT DOWN when you are the active talker. Because you are now qualifying to her, she will sit back and observe, rather than do work on her own.

ANOLOGY: Imagine watching TV when someone turns on some loud music. This is how it is for attracted girl when you get talkative.

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Sooo.. *lowering his eyelids and speaking in a softer almost raspy voice* what type.. of.. talking do you.. suppose.. is ok...?

IME, best to limit talk to:
-minimalistic response to her questions (use kino or BL signalling if possible)
-tiny reward compliments (use mostly kino or BL signalling for this)
-leading ("Come here" "Tell me more about X")

For times when she shuts up, fill the void with just holding her or resting your head in her lap. ROMANTIC SHIT I know but OMG it works..

I tried really hard to explain this with fewer words, but fucking hard. I think you can understand what a challenge this was in my PU and how totally my success rate improved after I was told these things.

CONCLUSION:
Know how to attract girls with talk. Know when its time to shut up. Develop the SELF DICIPLINE to avoid giving her your brilliant insights and hillarious stories after this point.

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[color=green]Nice post man!!

	Quote:
	>Lifeguard wrote: Confidence is the most>important part of being the>type of man who is successful>with women, and in life in>general.

FIRST you step out of your safety zone. THEN you feel a little better. Then you step further. etc.. If you do the man-stuff, you will get confident - not vise versa. IOW: acting/doing/going, regardless of confidence level, is the important thing. So what practical stuff can help for this? I think you listed a few:

	Quote:
	>3) Spend time helping other people less>fortunate than yourself. >4) Engage in healthy eating, exercise>and sports. > Improve your fashion and grooming to>look your best. >5) Travel to new places and observe>other cultures.

These become GREAT when you pull everything down to the most simple practical level applicable to your current situation. E.g.:
"Check out 3 gyms on thursday. Join one on friday. 3 hours nutrition research/google on saturday."

When you got it like that on paper, its way easier to take action.

Also, if you have an idea of a goal like "Worry less what others think." but you cant seem to find a practical way to start working on it, REMOVE it. Having ideas like that without being able to access them DIRECTLY through action, is really bad. It Becomes mental clutter that passifies and adds stress at the same time.

I like these too:

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	>1) I expect that women, and people in>general, will like me when I enter an>interaction. >3) There are an abundance of women in>this world. I don’t need every>interaction to be perfect. >6) Women love sex, intimacy and>relationships just as much as men do.

These are FRAME. The frame is worthless until you fill it with action though, so these can not compare to action in importance. If your life is an arena, these are like pictures that hang on the walls, while your actions (the simple practical stuff mentioned above) are the games going on in the middle of the arena.

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[i]Subject: Nonverbal Pick-Up (Expert level)

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FUCK!! Been trying a bit of nonverbal PU last few weeks, cos the new DJ is a total DICKHEAD playing far too loud. A few findings:

If I get line of sight to any girl, I can make her come towards me, simply by resting my eyes on her. (Its not actual EC. Its more like I see the 'entire HER', in a totally relaxed 'quiet' way. Dont know better way to explain differnce between this and looking at girls in a needy way.)

Anyway, they always start looking in all directions EXCEPT mine, while moving slowly towards me. (As you know, this is pretty much how I do approaches too.) I keep looking at her until she is near. Then I go sexual state, like hard to breathe and shit. This makes girl move the last 1-2 meters until her ass rubs against me. (They always face directly away from me at this stage.) After letting the tension build for a few seconds more, I tap her lightly on the shoulder and say 'hi' or 'cheers' or something else. Works on all HOT girls in pub/bar.

Sidenote - 'you got to approach' has reached out to the entire west european male population.. The really hot girls are approached NON STOP in some venues around here. Also, gangs of guys gravitate towards the HBs all the time, and try to do the 'we just happen to be here having fun, you should join in'-thing. IOW I think direct vibing and sexual state in particular is a great way to distance myself from the chodes.

When I move around, I still do the playful thing and it works great too. Recap:
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Thought 'sexual low eye lids' was best early vibe for PU. Its really great, but changed my mind lately because:

HINT of PLAYFUL SMILE is even better.

Sidenotes:
-Easy to transition between the two. Almost as if closely related.. good twin.. EVIL TWIN..
-When playful, horniness lurks and GROWS just underneath the surface.. so WHEN you transition to sexual, she will follow you strongly...
-Both 'sexual' and 'playful' put you firmly in the NOW, so wont be nervous/self conscious/analytical/big AR/afraid of talking to girls.
-Body rocking, backturn, facing 90deg away, peacocking and most of my great routines are natural parts of the playful frame.
-'Playful' never triggers the bitch shield.
- When playful, its OK to do stuff thats normally way off limits, like spanking, biting, hair pulling, dry humping, wrestling, name calling etc.

Background: subject=low eye lids (masf archive)

Edit: Playful smile is very easy to figure out BTW. Play with a kid and do the "I'm coming to get you!" game where you try to catch and tickle them. Look at how they smile.. THATS the smile!
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IOI Approach recap:
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-Girl sends you some IOIs.
1 Quickly but casually get near her, while pretending being interested in something else completely. In fact, look in all directions except hers.. (girls pick up on this ioi from you)
2 Turn straight towards her and smile big and 100% warmly as if saying 'wow - i like you!' TRUST ME, she will smile back with similar warmth!
3 Turn slightly away in a shy manner, while continuing to smile.
4 Turn back to her and compliment her bag or shoes or similar and ask where she bought it.
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Misc kino/escalation recap:
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-grab hands and smile, if she tries to impress
-kino on emotional high points
-run hands down arms into palms and squeeze
-rub/leave hand on lower back
-stretch legs on lap
-lay head on lap
-sit on lap
-lift her arm and put it around your neck, and scooch way down in the seat so she can comfortably leave it there

-push hair out of face and move slowly down to fondle earlobes
-smell slow along neck
-grab hair, pull head back, gently bite neck

-kiss forehead, nose, cheek then lips
-triangulate, drop verbal flow, move in for kiss ULTRA SLOW.
-pin down, shove arms up against wall or hold head against wall and start making out
-never skip dry-hump

Kiss openers
-get EC when moving towards girl. Transition to “I wanta fuck you like an animal” vibe. Triangulate. Touch waist gently. slowly go in for kiss.
-"I need a private word - come with me a sec.." grab hand and lead around corner, "come closer.. closer.. closer..", look in eyes 5 seconds, then wander eyes down to lips as go in for kiss

The Complete Kiss PU Method
Use BL. NO NEED for complex word game. From start be "Intrigued Dominant Male". Transition asap to "Sexually Aroused Dominant Male". Then do EXACTLY this:
-Get close
-Look DEEP into eyes a few seconds
-Look at lips
-Move in slowly - BANG - kissing has already commenced!
Break off , then go straight for makeout session. Make it more and more sexual until kinda sexual climax, then break off slowly, take her hand and tell her to come with you. Go somewhere you can fuck, start making out, start taking her clothes off and go in for the fuck.

Kiss anticipation builders
-stare at mouth
-move towards her mouth
-hoover with mouth near hers
-breath on face/neck
-touch head/neck/hair

Mid-kiss tech
-run fingers up back and neck, and make light fist with her hair - tighten as makeout progresses
-move lips near hers.. when she goes in, back up repeatedly until she frustrated, then grab and kiss her HARD
-put lips gently against ear and rotate tounge slowly around ear opening - move it down to ear lobe - stick it very gently into her ear canal
-let kissing trail her chin and neck down to her chest and up again
-nibble her chin, neck and ear lobes
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In-bed mini-tool recap:
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Push pull - if you want to start doing anal with a girl who never did it, you can push-pull-attract her to do it. Escalate towards it, then deescalate. Repeat. Girl will get really hot in her ass from this and even beg you to put it in if you keep it up.

Take away - pretend I get TOO HORNY in middle of escalation/sex and need to catch my breath.

ULTRA slow take away in bed.. e.g. you are spooning the girl with arms around her. If the girl was sleeping and you wanted to go toilet without waking her, how would you try to get up? Get up like that, but VERY VERY slow.

UNDER THE RADAR dry-humping (very small and ultra slow).[/i]
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Subject: PU and THE NOW

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-Aim for curious attitude in yourself and others (practical steps for this in later post about breaking out of 'modern society cage').
-Maximize vibing. Minimize verbalizing.
-Reveal as little as possible during PU (Aim for shadow and cloudiness and mixed signals).

WHY-stuff:

MIND got single way to escape from reality (='the now'/='sensory input') and into time (past, future/outcome, need, worry, fear etc..):

JUDGMENT (concept, prediction, description/label/word, theory, model, EGO, logic, conclusion, KNOWLEDGE etc etc.. all these are types of judgments).

When judgment cant be reached, the one thing that SUCKS US INTO reality.. STRIKES US! Like whenever we see something unlike anything we have seen before, or we feel something totally new.. the extreme OPPOSITE of judgment.. which is..

CURIOSITY

Believe it or not, these are forms of curiosity in one way or another (as in seeking input from reality/'the now'/senses without aiming for judgment):

Appreciation, vibe, interaction, action, relaxedness, EMOTION, dominance/leadership, submission, attraction/love/affection etc..

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Besides the obvious 'inner game' implications like avoid logic/analysis and also Eckhart Tolle stuff about realizing everything except 'the now' is mental masturbation, there are a few direct PU implications that probably only I have realized so far. They are:

-Intrigue=Flow(=state=judgment avoidance=in the moment=outcome independent=confidence=...)

-Revealing things=promoting judgment(=kills vibe/intrigue/state in others).

-Verbalizing promotes judgment.

-Clarity promotes judgment.

Okokok.. this is the TIP OF THE ICEBERG.

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Subject: Re: PU and THE NOW

In the middle of a project that was so interesting and challenging and altogether super fun for several hours a day for weeks.. I caught a glimpse of how the rest of the project would go. What I would do. What would happen. What things would be involved in what ways. What it would look like at the end. BAM! Interest lost. Put it away and didnt touch it again ever.

Walk in city with hood and sun glasses.. Girls stare at me like CRAZY. (literary)

Sit down somewhere with hood pulled way down over my face during sarge.. girls stop and talk to me.

..the DARKNESS and the STRANGENESS of the 'tall dark stranger'.

(Since I half-failed describing exactly what I talk of, with my initial post, I give you these examples.)

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